Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Sexiness and you...

Someone asked me a really interesting question the other today.What do you find sexy? I wanted to know why she asked (very weird question).She explained that she had just met a guy and asked me what I thought about him, because even though he was cute, she didn't find him sexy at all.

That made me think... I couldn't really give her an answer. Why? Sexiness for me is a lot of different things combined and its not purely just looks. I have dated guys that according to my husband, he didn't quite get what I saw in them!(I say the same about some of his ex's so we are pretty even on that one-LOL) But I always had an was just something about them!

So...that prompted me to ask people around me and obviously fellow bloggers.

What do you find sexy?

I find my husband's smile sexy (its also what attracted me to him at the airport in the first place), his confidence and his honesty...the day he picked me up and carried me across a huge puddle of water in Nigeria has got to be the sexiest moment of all time in our marriage (and trust me we had our moments)!! I am huge believer of what lies within and the fact that he KNOWS me (a little too well) and knows that those Gucci shoes mean so much to me and that if they got wet/trashed I would be SOOOO upset; all this without me saying a word!! That night...I paid up the way a good wife is supposed to!!

On a totally weird note, I find heels SUPER sexy!!!
I find fashion done correctly sexy...either on men or women!
Swagger...SUPER sexy!
The same goes for good manners and chivalry!

I unfortunately don't find Denzel Washington, LL Cool J, Vin Diesel, David Beckham sexy! I know they have great bodies and I can totally see why people want to take off their underwear for them - LOL. But I don't view them as sex objects, if I got to know them...then maybe. I can hear women screaming across the world - LOL. Let me explain fully!! For me it's much more than skin deep. I am not the kind of person who would see LL cool J (which I have) and think of what he would be like in bed or what I would do to him - HECK no!! I don't know him like that and that makes it difficult for me to even include him on a fantasy!! I am also just too much of a professional to view people that way. However, I know most women look at him lick his lips and automatically think of what those lips would do to them or vice versa! I am very weird i know...but it did make me curious enough to ask post this question to everyone else.

So...what do you find sexy? I really want to know!!


Vera Ezimora said...


Vera Ezimora said...

Lemme go read; I'll be right back

xoliquoricexo said...

LOUBOUTINS!!!!!! lol. and other stuff. LOL.

hello :-)


Anonymous said...

I am 3rd YAY. I find a beautiful smile sexy. A good joke makes me hot and a witty comment turns me on. I guess in general, a great mind is my drug of choice.

Remi Fagbohun said...

@ Vera...Still reading ??? LOL!

@ have you been? Louboutins are sexy too...its the "other stuff" we want to hear about.

@ Temite...I have to agree with you on the great minds. No one finds stupidity sexy. Its a MAJOR turn off!

Thx for the comments all!!!

ShonaVixen said...

hey Remi...first time here and lets say m hooked and loving it here...i totally agree with you : SWAGGER = SEXY!!!!I find Jay-Z shoes, hells, Jimmy Choos = ultra sexy!!
Intelligence is sexy to me too


naw, did someone write Louboutins? lol! Hey, I'm not mad at you...